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I Was Prom King…But My Son Will Not Be Prom King

Somehow I won prom king my senior year in High School! How did I win it? I have no clue.

How did I even get nominated? No clue!

When they announced the winner of King it went like this…

“The winner of prom King is Corey Le…I mean Benjamin Lee.”

I think the announcer was even surprised. Oh well, anyway I won prom king, big deal. The metal they gave me broke later that night!

I don’t believe I was even dating the girl I went with to the dance (if my memory is correct). The girl in the picture was prom queen. I was home by midnight. No hotel room for me. No drinking for me. No prom kiss.

The dance was at the Union on the University of Illinois campus (again if memory is correct).

I was a terrible dancer! Many would say what I did was not dancing, but something closer to the Elaine dance from Seinfeld.

I won prom king…but my son Joshua will never win prom king! He won’t be at the prom.

I can remember going to a dance in the 8th grade. Boys on one side and girls on the other. As the night progressed I gathered the courage to ask a girl named Suzanne to dance with me.

She said…”No.” Crushed, devastated, embarrassed…

I went to dances in high school! I remember the dances in high school in the cafeteria. It was dark, loud, and hormones were often raging. There were chaperones, but I don’t know what they did. They stood there as young teens were all hugged up on each other.

Things have changed since 1996. I know what happens on the dance floor at many of these dances. It’s teenagers rubbing up on each other for a few hours, who then have access to a hotel room (how does that happen) with the expectation of having sex. Some may say, “That’s an extreme.” Is it?

Many of the girls wear dresses that you think would make dads cringe!

Their breasts are about to fall out of the dress. Some of these girls are half naked.

Many of these boys already have the expectation that sex is going to happen. Condoms are available, beer is available, and something is going to happen because it’s prom night.

I went to prom, won prom king, but My son Josh won’t be going!

Google prom dances and you may be surprised what happens at these dances. Maybe not…

I just did. Something that popped up is “prom dancing grinding.” Yep! Even Google agrees with me!

Girls backsides are rubbing up on the boy’s private area. For hours!

The only thing stopping these kids from having sex are the few articles of clothing they are wearing. And it’s in public! Sex on the dance floor. The same thing happened in college. Yep! I know, I was there on the dance floor. I did it. Not proud of it. My son ain’t going.

I went to prom and won prom king. But my son will not. It would not be good for him to be in that environment.

I felt like if I didn’t go to the dances that I would be left out. I think a lot of kids feel that way. But it’s a dance. If you don’t go, you are not missing anything.

There is a great temptation for sure. Teenagers hormones are all over the place. It’s not a good idea to put them in a situation like that.

Parents, do you want your daughter grinding on guys with erections at prom? Parents, do you want your son grinding on a girl with an erection?

Is that graphic? Not with what’s happening in many high schools.  I’m just telling you what happens at these dances.

Are we encouraging our children to take the next step and to just go ahead and have sex? For some, I guess they don’t care. Some parents give their kids condoms, which is basically the green light to do what they want. What?

Some parents will give their children access to liquor and even a hotel room! What???

I know some will not like what I’m saying. I don’t care!

I went to prom and won prom king, but my son will not be going. One thing I do like about the picture above is that the girls dress covered her. Even my dates dress fully covered her. Now it’s a contest of how much skin can be shown.

Parents, do you want your kids to be mimicking sexual moves on the dance floor? I’ve heard that some schools are canceling their dances because they are so out of control. Google that!

Maybe Josh will get a tux and go out to a good dinner with his friends. I’ve heard parents do that. I like that idea.

But I know what goes on at prom dances. I won prom king. But he will NOT!

I CAN DO and SO CAN YOU. Life is all about having the right kind of attitude. We will face challenges. We have to decide how we will respond. Getting an ICD (Internal Cardio-Verter Defibrillator) in 2010 forced me to make a decision about my mindset. I decided that I CAN DO. What about you? Let's go. Check out my blog at www.icandoicd.com and my books on Amazon at www.amazon.com/author/benjaminlee.

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